Cap'n Grumpy wrote:The Irish Rugby Football Union (Ulster Branch) is responsible for and committed to ensuring that no employee, job applicant, volunteer, participant or member receives less favourable treatment on the grounds of age, gender, disability, ethnic origin, race, colour, nationality, parental or marital status, religious belief, class or social background, sexual preference or political belief.
Does UAFC agree?
Not gonna try to answer any of the questions or points made in the last 5 pages or so since I posted the above. I asked if the above statement was an acceptable way for people to act on this forum, because it is broadly the way people in general would expect others to behave, and if there was a breach in this, some could quite rightly be called to account.
If I or anyone else were to poke fun at an individual or a group of people, or treat them differently
because of their
age in such a way that anyone in that grouping could take offence, I would
quite rightly be criticised and called to account.
If I or anyone else were to poke fun at an individual or a group of people, or treat them differently
because of their
gender in such a way that anyone in that grouping could take offence, I would
quite rightly be criticised and called to account.
If I or anyone else were to poke fun at or criticise an individual or a group of people, or treat them differently
because of a
disability in such a way that anyone in that grouping could take offence, I would
quite rightly be called to account.
If I or anyone else were to poke fun at an individual or a group of people, or treat them differently
because of their
gender in such a way that anyone in that grouping could take offence, I would
quite rightly be called to account.
If I or anyone else were to poke fun at or criticise an individual or a group of people, or treat them differently
because of their
ethnic origin in such a way that anyone in that grouping could take offence, there would be hell to pay, with numerous people (including most on this forum) calling the perp out and taking them to task.
Likewise for
race, colour, nationality, parental or
marital status, class or
social background; and quite rightly so.
However it appears that when someone does the same with regard to religious or political belief, the gloves are off and it becomes open season on anyone who expresses a religious belief or political opinion contrary to what some others believe.
Now I will make it abundantly clear that I am not referring to debate and discussion of religion and/or politics - these are fine and dandy - and much of the previous number of pages I have no quibble about, albeit a lot of it goes round in circles and no one appears willing to shift from deeply held convictions on all sides of the debate. That is fine. That is everyone's right.
My one objection is to those (who if they broadly accept the equal opportunities statement I quoted above which is
broadly in keeping with what most organisations in this country agree to abide by) post what are considered by many to be offensive because of their religious or political belief.
Now again, I will make it abundantly clear that I am not offended by any of the pictures/memes or whatever that are posted, but what I object to is that some of those who are quickest to call others to account on (for example) making offensive comments on sexual preference or racist behaviour, are themselves guilty (in my opinion) of similar when it comes to politically or more especially, religious beliefs.
I repeat that I am not personally offended by what has been posted, and some say that it is just "a bit of fun", but what offends me is the obvious
provocation and intention to cause offence by posting some material.
Much is made of "
playing the ball, not the man", and it has been suggested there is nothing wrong with the pictures etc posted, as they are mocking a deity, or an imaginary figure etc, not those who hold any particular belief. For me, however, it is obvious that the only reason for posting these was to
cause offence or ridicule to a group of people for holding particular political or religious views.
If we are to take the Folau case as an example of how this causes offence (and I agree with Snipe's summation - it was crass, poorly done, and should have been obvious to Folau before he tweeted that it would be seen as provocative and cause offence), in this instance he did not target any individual, but could/would clearly cause hurt to a group of people as a whole. He played the ball, but in so doing, he followed through and also played the man. It was poorly done and if he had given it two minutes' thought, he should not have tweeted it. That is not to say he is not entitled to his beliefs and opinions, but he needs to exercise sensitivity and responsibility in how and when he voices those.
The same, the exact same, applies to those who post pictures on this forum which are clearly
intended to mock a group of people who hold religious beliefs. It matters not that no one individual was mentioned, or targeted - any individual within that group would be right to consider that they are being targeted (if the equal opportunities statement above is accepted) because of their beliefs.
The only differences between these two are that Folau has much greater public exposure and has been criticised (quite correctly in my opinion) for offending people on the basis of their sexual orientation
* (whether that was his intention or not); whereas on this forum there has been at best acceptance of, and at worst encouragement of, the
intention to offend people because of their religious belief.
Everyone is entitled to their opinion on all of these things, and I repeat, i have no objection to civil debate and discussion. My only objection is when such debate declines into mockery, or throwing something into the mix which does not add anything to the debate, but is clearly
intended to cause offence or belittle someone's personal beliefs.
In light of all this, I can only conclude that on this forum, there is no broad acceptance of the equality aspired to in my original. I think that is a shame.
* He mentioned other reasons that "hell awaits" but it appears that it was the homosexual references that caused the most ire, which is why I reference that.